Being a parent to a cocky, disrespectful teenager is far from easy, and different parents have different approaches to getting their children to behave.
One mom, Heidi Johnson, wrote a handwritten letter to her son, Aaron, and shared it on Facebook. She didn’t intend for the post to go viral. She didn’t even intend to make the post public. It was supposed to just be for friends to see, but she does not regret her post or the fact that it’s public.
In the letter to her 13-year-old son, Johnson reprimanded her son treating her like a “roommate.” She went on to give him an itemized bill for rent, food, etc that totaled over $700. If he was going to treat her like a roommate instead of his mom, she would do the same.
Johnson signed the note, “Love Mom,” and she truly does love her son. She followed up the post with another post explaining some backstory to the situation.
She also reassured parents who were criticizing her that “I am not going to put my 13 year old on the street if he can’t pay his half of the rent. I am not wanting him to pay anything.
I want him to take pride in his home, his space, and appreciate the gifts and blessings we have.”
She added that she never intended for Aaron to pay the bill. Instead, she wanted him to “gain an appreciation of what things cost.”
The reason Johnson wrote the note was to make sure her son understood “what life would look like if I was not his ‘parent,’ but rather a ‘roommate.’ It was a lesson about gratitude and respect from the very beginning.”
Johnson also explained that before she wrote the note, her son had lied about doing his homework, and when she told him she was going to restrict his internet access, he responded, “Well, I am making money now.”
She explained that the money he was referring to was a little bit of income he was making from his YouTube channel, but not nearly enough to pay for food and rent.
The public note has not hurt Johnson’s relationship with her son. She explained, “He and I still talk as openly as ever. He has apologized multiple times.”
Johnson has also had parents turning to her for advice since she posted the note to her son.
She explains, “My post seems to have opened a door, and people feel safe coming to me and asking for advice, venting, or even just have someone bear witness to their experience by listening and opening up and sharing a piece of myself in return.”
I’M 74 AND ADOPTED A GERMAN SHEPHERD WHOSE OWNERS WANTED TO EUTHANIZE.
The phone call came unexpectedly, my son’s voice laced with concern. “Mom,” he said, “you won’t believe this. There’s a beautiful German Shepherd at the shelter, and they were about to euthanize him!” My heart sank. How could anyone even consider such a thing?
He explained that the young couple who brought him in, the ones who had raised him from a puppy, were moving and simply couldn’t “handle a big dog anymore.” The thought of them discarding Hunter like a piece of unwanted furniture filled me with a rage I hadn’t felt in years.
“I’ll take him,” I declared, my voice firm.
“Mom,” my son hesitated, “He’s a big dog. Are you sure you can handle him? You’re not getting any younger.”
“I’ve had big dogs before,” I retorted, my voice rising. “And besides, I’m not going to let some irresponsible people decide his fate.”
The next day, I drove to the shelter, my heart pounding. The sight of Hunter, standing forlornly in his kennel, almost broke my heart. He was magnificent, with a thick, jet-black coat and eyes that held a hint of sadness. As I approached, he whined softly, his tail thumping against the kennel wall.
From the moment I stepped into his kennel, I knew he was meant to be mine. He nuzzled my hand, his fur soft against my skin, and I felt an instant connection. The shelter staff assured me he was well-behaved and gentle, and I knew it was true. I took him home that day, a wave of relief washing over me.
Life with Hunter has been a joy. He follows me everywhere, his presence a constant comfort. He curls up at my feet during the day, his head resting on my lap, and sleeps soundly beside my bed at night, a watchful guardian. He’s a gentle giant, never once causing any trouble. He’s the best listener, patiently enduring my rambling stories and offering silent companionship.
Sometimes, I catch him watching me, his golden eyes filled with a deep affection that melts my heart. I know he knows he was rescued, that he understands he has a home now, a safe haven. And in those moments, I feel a profound sense of gratitude.
Hunter has brought a renewed sense of purpose to my life. He’s taught me about unconditional love, about the importance of giving back, and about the resilience of the human-animal bond. He’s a reminder that even in the darkest of times, there is always hope, always a chance for redemption. And most importantly, he’s my family now, and I will never let him go.
This story emphasizes the emotional connection between humans and their pets, highlighting themes of rescue, companionship, and the importance of providing a loving home for animals in need.
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