Kevin Costner was initially hesitant about having more children in his 50s. Despite already being a father to four kids from a previous marriage, he and his second wife, Christine Baumgartner, decided to expand their family. They had three children together after getting married in 2004.
Recently, Kevin and Christine have ended their 18-year marriage. The couple shares three children, and their decision to part ways marks a significant change for the family.
Kevin’s fear of expanding his family came true, as his second wife has filed for divorce. Despite their split, the family’s bond and their shared interests remain an important part of their lives.
Kevin Costner, famous for movies like “Dances with Wolves” and “The Bodyguard,” has seven children. Despite his success as an actor, he had concerns about having more kids in his 50s. His wife, Christine Baumgartner, who is 19 years younger than him, wanted to have children.
In a 2008 interview, Kevin admitted, “I was afraid I couldn’t be an effective father.” His initial worries about expanding his family were a big concern for him at the time.
Kevin Costner realized he didn’t want to risk losing his wife, Christine, due to his fear of having more children. He decided to overcome his hesitation and embrace fatherhood once more. At 52, he welcomed his fifth child, Cayden.
Kevin was thrilled to be a father again, but he had some worries. In a 2007 interview with People, he expressed his concern: “My fundamental fear is that my new baby, someone else will raise him … I won’t get to coach him in what I think it is to be a man.” Despite these fears, Kevin was eager to be involved in his child’s life.
Actor Kevin Costner and his wife Christine Baumgartner with their son Cayden at Daytona International Speedway on July 5, 2008, in Daytona Beach, Florida. | Source: Getty Images
Despite his worries, Kevin makes sure to spend quality time with his children. He plays with them and teaches them to be independent, just like any other parent trying to navigate parenthood.
Kevin also shared some funny advice about what he’s learned from being a dad for decades. He joked:
Kevin Costner’s family includes seven children from both his marriages. Here’s a look at his kids:
From His First Marriage to Cindy Silva:
After his first marriage ended, Kevin admitted that his faith in relationships was “shaken” due to the breakdown of his first marriage. He said, “No one wants their marriage to end,” and the experience had a significant impact on him. Despite these challenges, Kevin has worked to be a devoted father to all his children.
Kevin Costner has seven children from different relationships. Here’s a look at his kids:
From His First Marriage to Cindy Silva:
1. Annie Costner** – Born in 1984, Annie is Kevin’s eldest child. She has acted in movies like *Dances With Wolves* and co-founded a film company called Sound Off Films in 2014.
Kevin has mentioned that not being able to see his children as much as he wanted has been a difficult adjustment for him.
Lily Costner, born in 1986, is Kevin Costner’s second child and a talented singer like her dad. Joe Costner, born in 1988, works in the entertainment industry as an audio engineer and production sound mixer.
Kevin also has a less-known son, Liam Costner, born in 1996 from a short relationship. Liam prefers to stay out of the spotlight.
In 2004, Kevin married Christine, and they had a son named Cayden Wyatt Costner in 2007. They had another son, Hayes Logan Costner, in 2009. Both boys like music and sports.
Lily Costner, born in 1986, is Kevin Costner’s second child and a talented singer like her dad. Joe Costner, born in 1988, works in the entertainment industry as an audio engineer and production sound mixer.
Kevin also has a less-known son, Liam Costner, born in 1996 from a short relationship. Liam prefers to stay out of the spotlight.
In 2004, Kevin married Christine, and they had a son named Cayden Wyatt Costner in 2007. They had another son, Hayes Logan Costner, in 2009. Both boys like music and sports.
The divorce news has received mixed reactions, with some expressing disappointment, while others suppose it’s beneficial for his wife, given that Kevin is significantly older than her.
While many people reserved their judgments about the shocking revelation of their separation, countless onlookers shared their opinions. One user wrote:
“Yep, he is too old for her anyway! Good for her! You old people have to learn the hard way!”
After My Son’s Death, My Daughter-in-Law Packed My Things and Told Me to Leave My Own Home
After losing her son, Daniel, in a tragic accident, Janet finds herself drowning in grief and memories of the home they once shared. But when her daughter-in-law, Grace, abruptly shows up and forces her to leave, Janet is devastated. What seems like a heartless betrayal turns into an unexpected act of compassion as Grace reveals her true intentions…
When Daniel died, my world shattered.
He wasn’t just my son; he was my best friend, my confidant, the one person who made the house feel alive. The silence that followed his passing felt unbearable. I thought his wife, Grace, and I would find solace in each other’s grief.
Flowers in a graveyard | Source: Midjourney
Instead, I discovered just how wrong I could be.
Grace and I had always been polite strangers. Sure, we shared holidays and awkward small talk at family dinners, but the only real bond we had was Daniel. Without him, we were just two women orbiting the same loss, unable or unwilling to connect.
It had been a month since the funeral when Grace showed up unannounced. I was in the living room with Bella, my Chihuahua, who immediately bristled at the sight of her.
Grace stepped inside, her heels clicking on the hardwood, her face unreadable as stone.
A Chihuahua sitting on a couch | Source: Midjourney
“We need to talk, Janet,” she said without pleasantries.
I set down my cup of tea and met her eyes, my stomach twisting.
“What’s going on, Grace?”
She didn’t answer. Instead, she walked past me, down the hallway, and into the bedroom.
“Excuse me?” I called after her, already on my feet. “You said you wanted to talk? What on earth are you doing?”
She turned to face me, her expression cold and calculated.
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“You need to pack. I’m taking you out of here.”
My heart lurched, like something big was about to happen.
“What are you talking about? This is my home!”
She scoffed loudly, making Bella growl from the doorway.
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“This was Daniel’s house, Janet. He bought it years ago, remember? He insisted you move in so we could all be closer. And now that he’s gone, it’s mine.”
I stepped into the room, my hands trembling.
“Grace, I’ve lived here for years. I raised my son in this house! You can’t just kick me out!”
Her gaze didn’t even falter.
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“I’ve arranged for you to move into a care facility. They allow pets, so Bella can come with you. Look, Janet, it’s pointless to fight. It’s already done.”
I just stared at her. A care facility? Like I was some frail old woman who couldn’t take care of herself?
“You don’t have the right to do this,” I said. “You didn’t even talk to me about this. You didn’t ask what I wanted, Grace!”
A reception at a care facility | Source: Midjourney
“I didn’t need to ask,” she replied, her voice steady but not unkind. “You can’t stay here, Janet. Not alone. It’s not good for you, and you know that too.”
“Not good for me?” I spat. “Or not good for you? Do you want to erase every memory of Daniel that doesn’t fit into your new life? Is that it?”
Her face tightened, but she didn’t reply. Instead, she picked up a suitcase and began folding my clothes into it. Bella whimpered from her spot on the bed, her eyes darting between me and Grace.
A Chihuahua sitting on a pet bed | Source: Midjourney
“Stop this,” I said, stepping forward. “Please, Grace. Let’s talk about this.”
“I tried to talk to you,” she shot back, her voice rising for the first time. “But every time I’ve come here, you’ve been… stuck. Sitting in the same chair, staring at the same photos, refusing to move forward. Do you think that’s what Daniel would’ve wanted for you?”
Her words stung, and tears sprang to my eyes.
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“Don’t you dare tell me what Daniel would’ve wanted! You don’t know what this house means to me.”
She paused then, her hands gripping the edge of the suitcase. For a moment, I thought she might stop, that she might soften and realize what was happening.
But when she looked back at me, her face was set like stone again.
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“I know you’re hurting, Janet,” she said quietly. “But this isn’t up for debate. You’re leaving today.”
Within an hour, my things were packed and loaded into Grace’s car. I sat in the passenger seat, clutching Bella’s carrier like a lifeline, too stunned to fight anymore.
The streets blurred outside the window as Grace drove in silence, her knuckles white on the steering wheel.
Packed suitcases in a car | Source: Midjourney
“I can’t believe you’re doing this,” I said finally, my voice cracking. “Daniel would be so disappointed in you.”
Her jaw tightened, but she didn’t look at me.
“You think I’m doing this to hurt you?” she asked after a moment, her voice low and tight. “You think this is easy for me?”
“If it’s not easy, why are you doing it?”
A woman in a car | Source: Midjourney
“Because I’m trying to save you, Janet!” she snapped, her voice breaking. “I couldn’t leave you in that house, drowning in memories. It’s not good for you. And it’s not good for me either.”
I stared at her, too stunned to respond. The rest of the drive passed in tense silence, the air between us heavy.
I didn’t realize that she was trying to save me. I didn’t think there was anything about me factored into the situation. I had just thought that she wanted me out so that she could do whatever she wanted with the house.
An older woman sitting in a car | Source: Midjourney
I didn’t think Grace cared enough…
When she finally pulled into a driveway, I braced myself for the sight of some sterile nursing home, complete with fake potted plants and a sign reading Welcome to Sunrise Acres or something of the sort.
Instead, I saw Grace’s house.
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“What… why are we here?” I asked, my voice trembling.
Grace parked the car but didn’t answer right away. When she finally turned to me, her expression had softened, and I saw something in her eyes I hadn’t seen in weeks.
Vulnerability.
An upset woman sitting in a car | Source: Midjourney
“Janet,” she said quietly. “I’m not sending you to a home.”
I blinked, the words not quite registering.
“What?”
“Mom,” she said softly.
I hadn’t expected her to call me that. She had only done it once, on their wedding day. I didn’t think Grace cared enough to see me as a mother figure in her life.
A couple’s wedding photo | Source: Midjourney
“I wanted you here,” she said, her voice breaking. “I didn’t know how to ask. I thought that if I gave you an invitation, you’d say no. You’d tell me you didn’t need me, that you could handle everything on your own. So I did it this way. I’m sorry if I hurt you, but I didn’t know what else to do.”
I stared at her, my mind racing to catch up.
“You… you wanted me to live with you?” I gasped.
A surprised woman sitting in a car | Source: Midjourney
She nodded, tears brimming in her eyes.
“We’ve both lost Daniel, and I’ve been struggling so much. It may seem like I’m back on my feet, but I can barely do anything by myself. I can’t eat properly because I don’t want to eat alone. I can’t go on walks anymore, because I don’t want to walk alone… I need you. Please. And Bella, too.”
Inside, the house smelled of fresh paint and lavender. Grace had prepared a room for me. There were hangers in the closet, just waiting for my clothes, and a small bed for Bella tucked in the corner.
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On the dresser were framed photos of Daniel, his lopsided grin frozen in time.
Bella sniffed her new bed tentatively, then padded in a circle before curling up with a soft whine. Watching her settle, I felt my chest loosen for the first time in weeks.
“You look hungry, darling,” I told Grace. “Let’s go make my famous cottage pie, shall we?”
A woman standing in a doorway | Source: Midjourney
That night, over cups of tea and cottage pie, Grace and I sat at the kitchen table and talked. For the first time in what felt like forever, we didn’t avoid the topic of Daniel.
“He always used to have the worst jokes,” Grace said, laughing softly. “Remember the time he tried to convince us that his karaoke was ‘performance art’?”
I smiled through my tears.
A cottage pie on a table | Source: Midjourney
“He got that from his father, Grace. Bill was exactly the same. Terrible jokes were his superpower. But you couldn’t help laughing anyway! Do you think they’re making everyone laugh in heaven?”
We stayed up for hours, sharing memories of the man we’d both loved. Grace told me things I’d never known about him—like how he brought her daisies every Wednesday because she didn’t like roses, or how he sang her favorite songs off-key just to make her laugh.
For the first time, I saw Grace not as the aloof woman who had married my son, but as someone who loved him just as deeply as I did.
A bouquet of flowers | Source: Midjourney
“We’ll never stop missing him,” she said softly, her hands wrapped around her mug. “But maybe we can help each other find a way to keep going. And, Janet? We can go back to your place and get all your belongings. I’m sorry I did things this way.”
Grace’s harsh approach that day had been flawed, even cruel, but it came from a place of care. And in the end, she didn’t just give me a place to stay. She gave me hope.
Two smiling woman | Source: Midjourney
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At Thanksgiving Dinner, My Daughter Stood up and Shouted, ‘And Where’s the Woman Dad Keeps in Our Shed?’
Thanksgiving dinner with the family was supposed to be a time of joy and connection, but it unexpectedly turned into something scary and shocking when I discovered that my husband was keeping a secret that could push us apart.
Thanksgiving was meant to be picture-perfect. The table was set with fine china, the rich aroma of turkey filled the room, and laughter bubbled over from every corner.
My husband, Peter, was putting the finishing touches on the turkey while I checked that everyone was comfortable. Little did I know that the holiday would come with more surprises than anticipated.
A family at a Thanksgiving dinner | Source: Midjourney
Our daughter, Emma, an expressive eight-year-old with endless curiosity, had been unusually quiet all evening, though she kept glancing out the window as if expecting someone, her fingers fidgeting with the hem of her dress. She also couldn’t sit still.
It wasn’t unusual for Emma to have her head in the clouds. I assumed she was waiting for her cousins to arrive or perhaps was just excited for the Thanksgiving meal. But as Peter offered her a smile from across the table, she didn’t smile back, and her restlessness began to tug at my attention.
A little girl looking outside | Source: Midjourney
I was about to carve the turkey after everyone had taken their seat, and Peter was ready by my side to begin dishing out slices when, out of nowhere, our daughter surprised us by standing on her chair. Her tiny frame somehow commanded the entire room’s attention.
This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.
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