I Bought My MIL a $600 Bag She Dreamed of for Christmas, But Her Behavior Made Me Change My Mind

When Brendon’s mother-in-law, Susan, sees the Christmas present pile under the tree, she immediately wants to take away her granddaughter’s gift. And for what? To teach the little girl a lesson: that you cannot always get what you want. Not to be outdone, Brendon teaches Susan a Christmas lesson that she’ll never forget.

It was the first Christmas I could finally afford to splurge a little. I’d landed a new job earlier that year, one with a salary that made it possible to loosen up and enjoy the holidays.

Most of my money went toward gifts for my nine-year-old daughter, Eve. She had been doing so well in school, helping out around the house without us even asking, and being all-around amazing.

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A smiling little girl | Source: Midjourney

If anyone deserved to be spoiled, it was her.

But apparently, my mother-in-law, Susan, had other thoughts.

The trouble started when she dropped by one morning, bringing a batch of freshly baked muffins with her. She noticed the Christmas tree practically buried under a pile of wrapped presents. Immediately, her face changed.

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Muffins on a table | Source: Midjourney

“Wow,” Susan said, crossing her arms as she scanned the room. “Looks like Santa went a little overboard this year, huh?”

I gave her a polite smile, still riding the holiday high.

“I figured it was a good year to do something special. Everyone’s got a little something under the tree… including you,” I laughed.

Her eyebrows lifted.

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Christmas presents under a tree | Source: Midjourney

“Oh, and what about Evie?” she asked. “How many presents does my granddaughter get?”

What the hell? I thought.

But I knew that tone too well. I kept my response light, hoping to dodge the fight I felt brewing.

“About three big ones and a few smaller boxes,” I said politely.

Susan’s expression shifted from curiosity to indignation so fast it gave me whiplash. She shook her head slowly, her lips pursing like I’d just confessed to some unthinkable crime.

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A frowning older woman | Source: Midjourney

“That’s way too much for a nine-year-old, Brendon,” she snapped. “She doesn’t need all of that.”

I blinked, caught off guard.

“It’s Christmas, Susan,” I said. “It’s the one day we can go all out. She’s earned it; she’s been working hard all year.”

Susan waved me off, not even pretending to listen to my words.

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A close up of a man | Source: Midjourney

“No child needs that many gifts,” she said. “I’ll be taking back the doll I bought her. She has to learn that life won’t always give her everything she asks for.”

I stared at the woman standing in front of me. I was in utter disbelief.

“You promised her that doll, Susan! She’s been excited about it for weeks.”

“That’s exactly why she needs to learn a lesson,” Susan said with a smug smile. “Better she learn it now than later.”

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A doll in a box | Source: Midjourney

I bit my tongue, trying to stay civil.

Before I knew it, Eve came running down the stairs.

“Good morning, Gran!” she said, rushing to hug the old woman.

“Hello, darling,” Susan said, giving me a smug look. “Gran’s leaving now, but I’ll see you soon!”

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A smiling little girl | Source: Midjourney

I understood the lesson she was trying to teach, really, I did. But this was Christmas! And Eve was nine.

It wasn’t about deprivation, it was about joy. Our daughter wasn’t some spoiled brat, and I saw no reason to punish her on the one day meant for celebration.

As for Melanie, my wife?

She told me to let it go.

“My mother’s gift is hers to decide what to do with,” she said with a shrug later that night as she made grilled fish for dinner. “It’s just a doll, anyway. Will Evie really miss it?”

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A tray of grilled fish | Source: Midjourney

I knew my wife had grown up with her mother’s toxic behavior and probably didn’t want to stir the pot, but it was still too much for me.

Our daughter was counting on that gift, and Susan was taking it away just to prove a point.

That’s when I decided—if Susan was going to play petty games, I could play them better.

See, one of the things I’d bought that year was a designer bag for Susan. It was the one thing she had been talking about for months.

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A close up of a man | Source: Midjourney

“I was with Cora from the club,” she said. “And we were walking around the mall, and I saw it in the store window. It’s so chic and beautiful. I have to get it!”

She hinted at it every chance she got, practically salivating over it.

And I bought it for her.

My goodness, it was expensive, $600, to be exact. I figured it would score me some brownie points, and honestly, as problematic as she was, I did like the idea of making her happy.

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A designer handbag on a table | Source: Midjourney

But now?

Now I had other plans.

I took the fancy bag out of its box and carefully folded a cheap $40 robe inside. It was a plain thing, just boring gray with no patterns. To be honest, it was the kind of gift you’d pick up in a rush from the clearance bin at the last minute.

I wrapped the box back up with care, making sure the packaging looked pristine.

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A gold box with a ribbon | Source: Midjourney

“You’re putting way too much effort into this, honey,” Melanie laughed.

“She needs to be taught a lesson, Mel,” I said. “Your mother messed with the wrong man.”

Christmas morning came, and the living room buzzed with excitement as everyone opened their presents. My daughter tore through her gifts, laughter bubbling as she saw all her presents.

Melanie smiled as she unwrapped the cozy scarf and pair of shoes I’d picked for her.

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A smiling woman | Source: Midjourney

And then came Susan’s turn.

Her eyes lit up the moment she saw the designer bag’s signature gold box. She clasped her hands together, beaming as she tore off the wrapping paper.

“Oh, you shouldn’t have!” she said, her voice high with excitement.

I leaned back, watching with the tiniest smile. She pulled the lid off the box, and her smile faltered.

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A gray robe in a box | Source: Midjourney

Gone was the giddy excitement. Instead, in its place was pure confusion.

Then shock.

And finally, disappointment.

Susan pulled the robe from the box, holding it up with trembling hands.

“What… What is this? Melanie? Brendon?” she asked.

I gave her my most innocent smile.

“It’s a robe,” I said. “I thought you’d like it. It’s practical, isn’t it?”

Her mouth opened and closed a few times, but no words came out. She looked between the robe and the expensive-looking box, her face turning pale.

“Is this really my gift?” she asked quietly.

I nodded, trying not to laugh.

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An upset old woman | Source: Midjourney

“Sorry if it’s not what you were hoping for. But you taught me a lesson the other day, Susan. You told me that people don’t always get the gifts they want. It’s a good lesson, don’t you think?”

Susan’s jaw tightened, and I swear I saw her eye twitch. My wife shot me a look that could melt steel. But I didn’t care.

I’d made my point. And my daughter was happy.

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A close up of a man | Source: Midjourney

“Come on,” Melanie said, calling everyone to the table. “The Christmas feast is ready to go!”

Later that afternoon, after we were all stuffed from the meal, Susan pulled me aside.

“You bought the bag, didn’t you?” she asked, her voice low and desperate.

I raised an eyebrow.

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A Christmas feast | Source: Midjourney

“What makes you say that?” I asked.

“Don’t play dumb with me, Brendon,” she hissed. “I know you bought it. Where is it?”

I crossed my arms and gave her a casual shrug.

“Sold it,” I said. “If you wouldn’t spoil my daughter, why would I spoil you?”

Her eyes widened in disbelief.

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A gift bag on a table | Source: Midjourney

“You’re lying. You didn’t sell it,” she said.

“Susan, believe what you want,” I said. “But you made it clear, sometimes people don’t get the things they ask for. Seems only fair, don’t you think?”

Susan’s face twisted again, and for a moment, I thought she might explode. Instead, she let out a sharp breath, clearly trying to contain herself.

“I’ve been nothing but generous to you,” she whispered angrily.

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A frowning old woman | Source: Midjourney

“Really? Because taking back a promised gift from your granddaughter doesn’t feel very generous to me.”

She had no comeback for that. She just stood there, lips pressed into a thin line, her anger simmering beneath the surface.

To say Susan was furious for the rest of the day would be an understatement. My wife gave me the cold shoulder too, but frankly, I didn’t care.

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A close up of a woman | Source: Midjourney

“You hurt my mother, Brendon,” she said. “You embarrassed her and you hurt her.”

“So what?” I asked. “She hurt me by pulling that stunt, Mel. Think about it, she took away something that Eve really wanted. And she had gotten it before I landed my new job. What would have happened if I couldn’t get Evie any Christmas presents? That doll would have saved the day.”

“I don’t understand why you’re so hung up on it,” Mel said. “Eve didn’t even see the doll, it’s a different case if Mom took it straight from her hands.”

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An upset older woman | Source: Midjourney

“You just don’t get it, do you?” I asked.

“I don’t. I really don’t,” she said.

Look, even now, things are big tense with Melanie and Susan. But it’s not a big deal for me. The important part is that my daughter had a Christmas she would never forget. And I’d shown Susan that her behavior just isn’t acceptable.

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An annoyed man | Source: Midjourney

By the end of the night, Susan left without so much as a goodbye. The robe sat abandoned on the couch.

Some people will tell you that Christmas is about forgiveness. About turning the other cheek and spreading joy. But sometimes, Christmas is about making sure people learn their lessons.

Even if it means playing a little dirty.

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A robe and box on a couch | Source: Midjourney

My mother-in-law didn’t deserve the $600 bag, not with the way she treated my daughter. And if she thinks she can keep pulling her little power plays in my house… well, she’s got another thing coming.

Merry Christmas, Susan.

What would you have done?

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A smiling little girl | Source: Midjourney

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My Kids’ Grandmom Came to Our Home, Packed the Christmas Presents She Gave Them & Took Them Away

When Rebecca’s mother-in-law, Darlene, goes home to take away her grandchildren’s Christmas presents, she’s left absolutely speechless. Later, she and her husband, Mark, learn that Darlene did this because she wanted to teach the couple a lesson… but karma intervenes, making sure that the old woman feels the same way the kids felt.

I never thought that this would be a story I’d tell. I mean, toxic in-laws are practically their own genre, but what my mother-in-law, Darlene, did this Christmas left me completely speechless.

Honestly, I’m still in shock.

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A woman looking to the side | Source: Midjourney

I’m Rebecca, a mom of three chaotic kids. There’s Caleb (7), Sadie (5), and little Mason (3). Christmas is a huge deal in our house and has been like this since I was a child. We go all out.

The tree, the decorations, and of course, the gifts. Usually, Darlene shows up with her arms full of presents for the kids, playing the part of the doting grandma for one day a year.

This time, though, Darlene really outdid herself. Caleb got the new LEGO set that he had been begging for, and Sadie’s eyes lit up over a princess castle playset. Mason, the little speed demon of the family, zoomed through the living room on an adorable ride-on toy.

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A castle made out of LEGO blocks | Source: Midjourney

She even threw in stylish clothes for all three kids.

“They need to be photo-ready, Becca,” she told me. “And this way, they all match!”

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The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided “as is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.

My Parents Gave Me $10,000 to Pay for College — I Was Shocked to Find Out What They Wanted in Return

My Parents Gave Me $10,000 to Pay for College — I Was Shocked to Find Out What They Wanted in Return

I am about to graduate high school and I have been applying to universities and going on tours. My parents decided to gift me $10,000 to cover college costs. I was excited about this gift until they told me what they wanted in return. I refused their terms and walked away but now they are calling me ungrateful.

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Parents giving cash gift to daughter | Source: Getty Images

Growing up in a small state with big dreams, I always envisioned my future in New York pursuing my dreams. My vibrant brushstrokes, which had been a part of me almost all my life, kept my dream going.

My room was a kaleidoscope of colors, filled to the brim with paintings that spoke volumes of my journey through high school. I won art competitions and its perks were evident in the array of accolades adorning my walls.

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A young woman painting | Source: Getty Images

But art wasn’t just about the trophies; it was about the stories behind each brushstroke, each piece holding a piece of my heart. Among these masterpieces, a subtle hint of my side gig lingered, paintings created with love, for lovers, whispering tales of romance and passion.

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A room with framed artwork | Source: Getty Images

Painting was more than a hobby to me, it was my passion and my identity. My parents, on the other hand, saw it as a fleeting interest, something that would never sustain a ‘real’ career. They encouraged me to explore more ‘practical’ fields, but my heart was set on pursuing an art degree in New York, a city that pulsed with creativity and opportunity.

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A woman painting her room | Source: Getty Images

One evening, amidst my college applications and tours, the dinner table conversation started off innocently enough. My parents had a surprise for me, a gesture so generous it left me speechless. “We’ve decided to give you $10,000 to help pay for college,” my mom announced, her smile as warm as the summer sun.

I was over the moon. “Thank you so much! This means I can apply to my dream art schools in New York!” I exclaimed, visions of bustling city streets and inspiring art galleries dancing in my head.

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A happy daughter receiving cash gift from parents | Source: Getty Images

But the warmth quickly faded as my dad cleared his throat, signaling the onset of conditions I hadn’t anticipated. “There are two rules,” he said sternly. “First, you can’t leave the state for university. And second, you can only choose from the degrees we approve of — medicine or law. We don’t think an art degree is the right path for you.”

My heart sank. “But I’ve been painting my whole life. You know how much this means to me,” I countered, trying to keep my voice steady despite the turmoil inside.

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A daughter sad at her parents terms | Source: Getty Images

“We’re doing this for your own good, Ruth. Stop being ungrateful. We just want you to have a secure future,” my mom chimed in, her voice softer but no less firm.

The argument that ensued was not just heated; it was a clash of dreams and practicalities, each word sharp with the tension of unmet expectations. “How can you call it help if it comes with strings that strangle my dreams?” I cried out, my voice cracking under the strain of emotion. My parents, steadfast in their stance, responded with equal fervor.

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A mother repremanding daughter | Source: Getty Images

“Ruth, we’re not trying to strangle your dreams, that is an ungrateful thing to say. We’re trying to ensure you have a future that’s not dependent on whims,” my dad countered, his tone laced with frustration and concern.

“Art isn’t a whim! It’s who I am. Don’t you understand? By restricting me to medicine or law, you’re asking me to give up a part of myself,” I shot back, desperation creeping into my voice. Each word felt like a plea for them to see me, to really see the person I was and the dreams I harbored.

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Very upset parents scolding their daughter | Source: Getty Images

My mom sighed, her usual composure faltering. “We’ve seen too many struggles in fields like art. We don’t want that life for you. Can’t you see we’re doing this out of love?”

“But love shouldn’t come with conditions that force me into a mold I don’t fit,” I argued, my heart aching with the need to be understood. “I appreciate the gift, I really do. But if it means sacrificing my passion, my dreams, then what’s it worth? Isn’t my happiness and fulfillment important too?”

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Angry father with daughter | Source: Getty Images

The room fell silent, the air thick with unspoken words and unresolved emotions. I stood there, feeling more alienated than ever. It was clear that the gap between us wasn’t just about the money or even about my career choice; it was about recognition, about them not validating my identity and aspirations.

Unable to bear the weight of their expectations and the pain of feeling so fundamentally misunderstood, I stormed out, the sound of my departure echoing through the house.

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A daughter leaving home | Source: Getty Images

The door slammed shut behind me, a symbolic closure to a conversation that left me feeling more lost and alone than before. The gift that was meant to pave my way to the future now felt like chains binding me to a path I couldn’t walk, a future I couldn’t accept.

In the weeks that followed, I sought refuge at my friend’s place, a sanctuary where I could escape the stifling atmosphere of my home. It was a time of reflection and, surprisingly, of understanding. I realized that my parents’ intentions, albeit misguided, came from a place of love. They wanted me close, and safe in a career they deemed secure.

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A sad daughter | Source: Getty Images

But a fire still burned within me, a desire to follow my dreams. I started working on a presentation, pouring my heart into every slide. I gathered testimonials from successful artists, statistics on the demand for creative professionals, and a detailed budget plan to manage my expenses beyond the $10,000 gift. My aim was to show not just the viability of an art degree but the depth of my commitment to my passion.

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A daughter thinking about her future | Source: Getty Images

With the presentation ready, I reached out to my parents, asking for a chance to discuss my future. They agreed, and on the day of the meeting, a mix of nerves and determination filled me. As I walked into the hotel lobby to meet my parents, a knot tightened in my stomach, and my palms grew clammy with nerves.

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Nervous woman walking | Source: Getty Images

Despite my determination, fear gnawed at me, whispering doubts and uncertainties. The weight of the impending conversation pressed heavily upon me, each step forward feeling like a leap into the unknown. Yet, amidst the fear, a flicker of hope persisted, driving me forward with the belief that this meeting could change everything.

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Nervous daughter presenting to parents | Source: Getty Images

“Mom, Dad, I understand your concerns, but I need you to see things from my perspective,” I began, as soon as we were done with the pleasantries. Clicking through slides that represented my dreams and plans. I spoke of compromise, of understanding, of a future where passion and pragmatism could coexist.

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A woman presenting | Source: Getty Images

“Pursuing art is not just an urge; it’s my passion, my calling. I need the freedom to explore this path fully,” I said meeting my parents’ gaze with determination.

Acknowledging their worries, I continued, “I know you want what’s best for me, and I appreciate that. So, here’s what I’m proposing, regular check-ins and updates on my progress. You’ll see firsthand how committed I am to making this work. Please, trust me to follow my dreams.”

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Parents listening to their daughter | Source: Getty Images

As I talked, I saw the change in their expressions, from skepticism to contemplation, and finally, to understanding. “We never realized how much this meant to you,” my dad admitted, his voice softer than I’d heard in weeks. “Your presentation… it’s clear you’ve thought this through.”

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Happy parents with daughter | Source: Getty Images

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