The renowned Genesis lead singer and drummer Phil Collins has enjoyed enormous success in the music business over his illustrious career.
Joining Michael Jackson and Paul McCartney as the only performers with over 100 million records sold through both solo and collaborative projects, he is one of three. Collins was exposed to music at a young age. He was born on January 30, 1951, in London, England, to parents who were artists.
The move that would define his sound came when he was five years old and received a homemade drum kit from his uncle. It included tambourines, triangles, cymbals, and miniature drums.
Key bands like The Shadows led the way as the English beat genre started to take shape. In addition to leading this movement, Collins would frequently perform at get-togethers thrown by his parents’ sailing club.
Collins was first exposed to rock and roll at the age of fourteen, when The Beatles motivated him to buy a record player and Please Please Me. He would put his drums in front of a mirror and turn up the record player’s volume so he wouldn’t have to look at what he was doing.
To learn how to read drum music, which was necessary if one wished to work in an orchestra pit or dance band, he decided to take drum lessons from a teacher. But Collins soon discovered that reading sheet music was not nearly as good as playing spontaneously.
In the 1970s, Collin’s life took an unexpected turn after he came upon an advertisement for Genesis’ drummer. Collins got in touch with them, and they were happy to have him on board, which launched his incredible musical career.
Many of the songs from The Beatles’ five albums went on to become timeless classics that we still love to this day. Due to a dearth of worthy contenders, Collins assumed the role of lead vocalist for the band quite quickly.
He took a while to get used to being a drummer as well as a voice, but he persisted and became one of the greatest musicians of our time.
As a solo artist and a member of the legendary band Genesis, Collins enjoyed enormous success in the music industry. Hits like “I Don’t Care Anymore,” “In The Air Tonight,” and “You Can’t Hurry Love” propelled him to the top of the music business.
After 25 years with Genesis, Collins made the decision to change directions in his career, concentrating on jazz ventures, movie soundtracks, and his solo endeavors. He said he hoped his old comrades would have a successful career, but when 2017 came around, he decided to go back on the road with them for their Last Domino tour.
Sadly, the pandemic forced a postponement of this tour, and shortly before it started, Phil spoke with BBC Breakfast, raising some concerns regarding his health. With Phil on vocals and Nicholas Collins on drums, the band plans to play live again despite this setback.
Nic is a fantastic drummer, but according to Tony Banks, he could add even more intensity to the already strong early Phil Collins tunes.
Speaking on his retirement from drumming, Phil remarked, “I’d like to, but I can scarcely grip a stick with this hand.” Despite the challenges that come with being physically limited, Phil has not allowed them to deter him from pursuing his love of music.
The storyteller, a man our age, spoke with a palpable sense of loss as he outlined his physical struggles. He bemoaned not being able to travel with his kid and hear about his travels.
He wasn’t sure if he wanted to carry on traveling because of his health. His remarks gave off a dejected vibe, as though he had accepted that he could no longer engage in some activities and that they were off-limits to him.
He felt pressured and faced with a difficult decision: stick on his current course or stop his travels. It dawned on him that either way, a physical constraint or a deliberate choice would force him to give up something he valued. He was troubled by this and felt as though he might miss out on a lot of opportunities in life as a result of this sudden change in his circumstances.
We Moved Away from My Controlling MIL, but Then a Court Notice Arrived — She Found Us and Claimed We Owed Her Unpaid Bills
I thought we were free. For months, I woke up in our new home, relishing the quiet, the privacy, and the relief of finally escaping my MIL. But just as I let my guard down, a knock at the door shattered that illusion. A lawsuit. A court summons. And the most terrifying part? She knew where we lived.
We had cut ties, erased our footprints, and built a life without her meddling in every moment. So how had she found us? And why was she claiming we owed her money?
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As I stood there, the court papers trembling in my hands, I knew one thing for certain. Inga wasn’t done with us yet.
***
I ran my fingers along the window frame, staring out at the quiet street.
The house was just a modest rental with a creaky front porch and mismatched wallpaper. Nothing special.
But to me, it was a sanctuary. A fresh start.
Behind me, Max sat on the couch, flipping through a book while our seven-year-old son, Leo, played with his toys. He smiled while moving his toy car, but I could see the shadows under his eyes.
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It had taken months for Leo to start sleeping without nightmares. Years of our lives had been twisted and manipulated by Max’s mother, Inga, who was an expert in control and overstepping boundaries.
I still remember the way she would push her way into our daily lives, no matter how much I tried to set boundaries. At first, she convinced Max that she just wanted to “help out” after Leo was born. She cooked meals, cleaned, and always seemed eager to babysit.
But the help quickly turned into control.
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She made decisions for Leo without consulting us.
For instance, she once cut his hair because she thought it was “too long.” She even fed him snacks we explicitly asked her to avoid.
At night, she would creep into Leo’s room after he had fallen asleep, pressing kisses to his forehead, brushing his hair back, and whispering things I couldn’t hear. I can’t explain how invasive it felt.
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And she never knocked.
It didn’t matter if I was in the bedroom, bathroom, or the kitchen, Inga would just appear. Her presence loomed over our home like a storm cloud, suffocating me with unspoken judgment.
The worst part? She convinced Max that she was only trying to be close to her grandson.
“She’s just excited to be a grandmother,” Max would say whenever I complained. “She doesn’t mean any harm.”
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But I saw it for what it was. Control.
While we were living on her property, she kept everything in her name, including the utility bills, the lease, and even the mailbox.
Every month, she would remind us of how much we owed her, even though we gave her cash for everything. And if we ever disagreed with her? She would weaponize it.
“I do everything for you,” she would say, voice dripping with disappointment. “And this is how you repay me?”
The day we packed our bags to leave, she stood in the doorway with her arms crossed.
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“You’ll regret this,” she said.
That was months ago. Now, as I sat in our new home, listening to Leo hum quietly while stacking his Legos, I felt something close to peace.
But then… There was a sharp knock at the door.
My heart skipped a beat. For a split second, I imagined opening the door to my mother-in-law’s smirk.
But when I pulled it open, I found a man in a suit holding an envelope.
“Are you Sarah?”
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I nodded.
“You’ve been served.”
My fingers trembled as I took the document. A lawsuit notice. A court summons.
My heart pounded against my chest as I skimmed the accusations: unpaid utility bills, property damage, unlawful departure.
She had found us.
But how?
We had done everything right.
We’d changed numbers and deleted social media. We hadn’t told anyone where we were going. We’d cut her off completely.
Yet, somehow, Inga had found us.
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I turned to Max, my hands clutching the papers. “She knows where we are.”
I showed Max the papers and watched his eyebrows furrow as he read them.
“It’s another power move,” he said. “But this time, it’s going to be her last.”
A bitter laugh bubbled in my throat. “She’s suing us for her bills, Max. Bills that were always in her name. How does she think she’s going to win this?”
Max exhaled sharply. “She doesn’t need to win. She just needs to make our lives miserable.”
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And at that, she was succeeding.
I still remember how she told us not to go for a proper contract when we decided to move into her house.
“We’re family,” she said.
And now, she was suing the same family by lying that we didn’t pay her anything.
How could she stoop so low? What was she even thinking?
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A few days later, Leo came home from school looking pale and upset.
“Grandma came to my school today,” he said. “She said she missed me and wanted to talk, but I asked the teacher to tell her to leave.”
My blood turned to ice.
I dropped to my knees in front of him, gripping his shoulders. “She talked to you?”
Leo shook his head quickly. “No. The teacher didn’t let her. But she saw me. She waved at me from the gate.”
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That night, Leo tossed and turned, mumbling in his sleep, trapped in another nightmare.
And I knew this was all because of Inga. This had to stop. I couldn’t let her ruin our lives anymore.
The following morning, I stepped outside to grab the mail. And that’s when I learned about Inga’s final move.
Our mailbox had an electricity bill addressed to Max.
The date? After we had moved out of Inga’s house. She wanted us to pay for electricity we hadn’t even used.
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I gripped the paper and stomped back into the house.
“She’s been running up charges in our name,” I told Max. “This is fraud.”
Max exhaled. “All she wants is to make us look like we’ve committed a grave sin by moving out…”
That’s when I realized what Inga was doing wasn’t just about money. This was about control. About dragging us into court and humiliating us.
But if she thought we were going to roll over and let her win, she was in for a surprise.
The day of the hearing arrived, and as we walked into the courtroom, I saw her sitting there.
She was ready for battle.
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Soon, the performance began.
“I opened my home to them, I paid their bills, I took care of them… and they left me with nothing but ruin!” she sobbed theatrically, dabbing at dry eyes with a tissue.
I glanced at the judge. He wasn’t buying it.
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But then Inga went for the kill.
She turned toward Leo and gasped dramatically. “My own grandson won’t even look at me now. My heart is broken!”
That’s when Max’s hands clenched into fists. I guess he was done.
“Enough, Mom,” he spoke up. “You never paid for us. You took our money, claiming it was for bills, but you never actually paid them. And you deliberately ruined our rental history.”
He turned to the judge. “And we can prove it.”
I took out the stack of papers.
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The documents had a full record of every payment we had made. It was proof that we had always given Inga the money for the bills she claimed to have paid.
There was also a police report from the day we moved out, documenting Inga’s threats.
And a copy of the new electricity bill dated after we left.
Inga wasn’t ready for this. Her eyes widened the moment she saw us submitting the documents.
“No! This isn’t fair!” she shrieked, scrambling to her feet. “They lied! They manipulated everything! You can’t do this!”
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The judge barely spared her a glance. “Sit down, or you’ll be held in contempt.”
Inga’s chest heaved. “I took care of them! I gave them everything! And this is how they repay me?!”
Max exhaled sharply, shaking his head. “We don’t owe you anything. Not anymore.”
The judge’s verdict was swift. Case dismissed.
And then? A formal warning against Inga for harassment.
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Inga lost, and we won. But for some reason, it didn’t feel like a real win. I guess that was because Inga still knew our address, and she could still show up to our house or go to Leo’s school to meet him.
The following day, I told Max something he wasn’t expecting.
“We’re moving. For good this time.”
“What?” he blurted out. “Moving again?”
“That’s the only way to ensure your mother stays away from us,” I said, picking up my phone.
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I called our real estate agent and told him we needed to move somewhere else. Somewhere far away from this place.
Three weeks later, we settled into a beautiful house in a quiet, welcoming neighborhood. Leo laughed more, slept better, and finally felt safe.
Max, too, seemed lighter, especially when he received an unexpected call from a top firm in the area with a brilliant job offer.
For the first time in years, I felt truly free. And this time, Inga had no way of finding us.
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Sometimes, family isn’t about blood. It’s about boundaries.
Sometimes, cutting off toxic people isn’t cruel. It’s survival.
You see, some people will never respect your peace, and when that happens, you have to choose yourself.
What do you think? Would you have handled it differently?
This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.
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