Being a parent to a cocky, disrespectful teenager is far from easy, and different parents have different approaches to getting their children to behave.
One mom, Heidi Johnson, wrote a handwritten letter to her son, Aaron, and shared it on Facebook. She didn’t intend for the post to go viral. She didn’t even intend to make the post public. It was supposed to just be for friends to see, but she does not regret her post or the fact that it’s public.
In the letter to her 13-year-old son, Johnson reprimanded her son treating her like a “roommate.” She went on to give him an itemized bill for rent, food, etc that totaled over $700. If he was going to treat her like a roommate instead of his mom, she would do the same.
Johnson signed the note, “Love Mom,” and she truly does love her son. She followed up the post with another post explaining some backstory to the situation.
She also reassured parents who were criticizing her that “I am not going to put my 13 year old on the street if he can’t pay his half of the rent. I am not wanting him to pay anything.
I want him to take pride in his home, his space, and appreciate the gifts and blessings we have.”
She added that she never intended for Aaron to pay the bill. Instead, she wanted him to “gain an appreciation of what things cost.”
The reason Johnson wrote the note was to make sure her son understood “what life would look like if I was not his ‘parent,’ but rather a ‘roommate.’ It was a lesson about gratitude and respect from the very beginning.”
Johnson also explained that before she wrote the note, her son had lied about doing his homework, and when she told him she was going to restrict his internet access, he responded, “Well, I am making money now.”
She explained that the money he was referring to was a little bit of income he was making from his YouTube channel, but not nearly enough to pay for food and rent.
The public note has not hurt Johnson’s relationship with her son. She explained, “He and I still talk as openly as ever. He has apologized multiple times.”
Johnson has also had parents turning to her for advice since she posted the note to her son.
She explains, “My post seems to have opened a door, and people feel safe coming to me and asking for advice, venting, or even just have someone bear witness to their experience by listening and opening up and sharing a piece of myself in return.”
Starving ‘Stray’ Pup Sits Patiently At Restaurant Door, Waits For Food
Everyone walked by her as she lay on the sidewalk until one person changed everything!
Amid the relentless downpour, a stray dog with a thick, curly coat roamed the desolate urban streets in a relentless search for food. Her wanderings eventually brought her to the welcoming doorstep of a local restaurant, capturing the immediate attention of the staff inside. As she stood there, soaked to the bone and gazing intently at them, her eyes conveyed a poignant plea for just a small helping of food or even mere scraps. Her appearance not only surprised but deeply moved the restaurant team, who were unprepared for such a heart-tugging encounter.
The restaurant team was immediately moved by the sight of the tiny, bedraggled pup. Despite wearing a collar, her condition suggested she had been surviving alone for quite some time. Responding with swift compassion, they fed her, and she quickly polished off every last bit of the meal, indicating her dire hunger from days spent unfed.
The following day, she returned, demonstrating her newfound trust. She waited until the premises were quiet and approached again for what had now become her expected evening meal. The staff happily obliged, serving her another hearty portion, which she gratefully accepted.
Maintaining a respectful distance, yet clearly more comfortable, she ventured inside to wait as her meal was prepared. Though she remained wary of physical contact, her actions spoke volumes about her growing reliance on this new-found sanctuary.
After enjoying her meal, she departed, only to return the very next morning, eagerly anticipating another serving. This pattern continued, and the pup became a regular fixture at the restaurant. Concerned for her well-being, the staff decided to follow her one evening, learning that she roamed the local area nightly in search of a safe spot to rest.
Local market employees recognized the dog, noting she had been a fixture in the neighborhood for months without a stable home. Moved by her resilience and repeated visits, the restaurant team resolved to provide her with a permanent solution. After her next meal, they spent considerable time gently encouraging her to stay longer. Eventually, they managed to secure a leash around her, marking a pivotal moment in her life.
From that day forward, the decision was clear. The once-stray pup would now spend her nights in the warmth of a home, with days passed as a cherished companion at the restaurant. Her life was transformed by the simple acts of kindness from the restaurant staff, who not only fed her body but also nurtured her soul.
Now a beloved member of the restaurant family, she no longer has to worry about her next meal or a place to sleep. Her days are filled with joy, comfort, and the occasional cuddle, a stark contrast to her previous life of uncertainty and solitude.
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